A 6 yr old boy was in the market with his 4 yr old sister. Suddenly the boy found that his sister was lagging behind. He stopped and looked back. His sister was standing in front of a toy shop and was watching something with great interest. The boy went back to her and asked, “Do you want something?” The sister pointed at the doll. The boy held her hand and like a responsible elder brother, gave that doll to her. The sister was very very happy… The shopkeeper was watching everything and getting amused to see the matur behaviour of the boy… Now the boy came to the counter and asked the shopkeeper, “What is the cost of this Doll, Sir? !” The shopkeeper was a cool man and had experienced the odds of life. So he asked the boy with a lot of love & affection, “Well, What can you pay? The boy took out all the shells that he had collected from sea shore from his pocket and gave them to the shopkeeper. The shopkeeper took the shells and started counting as ...
Families are an integral part of one's life. It does not matter if you have a small or big family, as long as you have one. A family serves as the first school to the child where one learns about various things. The basic knowledge about one's culture and identity comes from their family only.
Family can be joint, single or nuclear.
In joint family, many family members along with their spouse and children live together in one house.
In single, only one single male member along with his wife and children live at one place.
Advantages of Joint Family
- Shared chores. A family is like a big team, a collaboration where everyone plays their part.
- Sharing becomes a habit.
- Less financial stress as everyone contributes.
- Stronger emotional bond.
- Family values.
- Good support system.
- Improved social skills.
- Practical lessons.
Advantages of Single Famiy
- Fewer arguments. ...
- Good role modeling. ...
- Teaches independence and responsibility. ...
- Easier to understand expectations. ...
- Sense of community. ...
- Close feeling.
Nuclear family, in small terms, comprises husband, wife, and their unmarried children. The children leave the parental home after the wedding and build their own independent house. A nuclear family is also an independent entity, free from the influence of the elders. There is a reduced connection between parents and their married children.
Advantages of Nuclear family
1. Possibility of Reduced Conflicts
- Conflicts are bound to exist in any family and home, it is part and parcel of life, however there is a possibility of reduced conflicts as the number of people are lesser in nuclear family compared to joint family.
- As the number of people are less in a nuclear family, the expenditures could come down.
2. Personal Responsibilities
- There is no transfer of responsibility in the nuclear family like there is in the joint family.
- Parents are obliged to accept responsibility of their children on their own.
- In order to provide for his family, the head of the family needs to work hard.
3. Harmony and peace
- For a pleasant family relationship, peace and prosperity are extremely important.
- Misunderstandings are bound to exist in any family, however, as the number of members are fewer in a nuclear family, there is a possibility of reduction in misunderstandings amongst each other.
4. A limited number of children
- In nuclear families, the family planning programme is successful.
- Nuclear family members have to prepare and restrain their families as they have to bear all the duties and costs of rearing their children themselves.
5. Women’s Good Status:
- Women get sufficient time to take care of their kids.
- Women also get time, corresponding to their own idea, to organize and maintain her home. No pressure from the elders.
Disadvantages of the nuclear family
1. Insecurity feel for widows, and at old age
- In a nuclear family widowed, or old people will feel insecure since they won’t have emotional or financial support.
- With old age, the health will fail, in nuclear family old age people may not find the support for their sustenance.
2. An economic drawback
- As they live separately, the family property is split among the siblings, so the land is subdivided, causing economic loss.
3. Children’s insecurity
- Both husband and wife pursue careers hence children may feel neglected.
- They may feel isolated and anxious emotionally.
- There is a possiblity of children growing in the wrong path, as working parents would be busy and may not spend sufficient time with their children.
- As individuals do not get a chance to interact with other family members, they may become unsocial.
5. Loneliness
- The sense of loneliness is one of the big disadvantages of the nuclear family.
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